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As it flows, as it sings, as it grows- LOVE.


Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to
doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
- Unknown

This is, perhaps, the first time, I speak of love. Maybe because, this is the first time I understand love.

‘As it finds its way into the deepest corners,
And holds its breath, as destiny honours.
Erupts in ecstacy in the heart,
Feel it take over every part.
Hault, love is not a wave, not an upsurge.
Breathlessness and the lonely urge.
Breeze after the storm, love after its torn.’

Beautiful and serene, a rainbow after the storm~ This is how it is defined.
But the sudden eruption is not love. The sudden eruption is the foundation of the building about to be formed. Love is the building, love is the feeling of helplessness in the absence after the excitement dies. Love is just how beautifully the roots of the two hearts are intertwined, that even after the excitement wears out, the beauty of togetherness remains the only ecstasy.
Initially, everyone and everything seems perfect; but as time unfolds every secret, falling in love with the imperfections is love, laughing together at little mistakes is love, smiling and feeling complete even while fighting because the trust doesn’t seem to disappear is love.
It grows with every breath and never ends. And at every place where love is formed, it is different. It is not what is shown in movies, it is not what is read in books. Like every person has a unique set of fingerprints, every person has a unique way to love. Love the way you're loved, no one can love you the same way. 
The dependence on a person is not love.
But gaining strength from love is love.
Yes, love cannot be put in words. Love cannot be defined. For those who think, love is easy- it is not. Love requires strength, sacrifice, compromise- all with a smile coming from the depth of the soul and clarity of heart.

Let go of love. Its yours to keep.

Queen of Blah signing off. :)




What we call a 'Best Friend.' ♥


“When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there” ~Anonymous.


When you were feeling as if you’re walking a bed of thorns, with storms gushing in and you found no place to hide- this person didn’t bring in rainbows, but certainly gave you an umbrella and kept screaming, “Watch where you’re going, stupid! There is a thorn there.”
When you felt you were falling helplessly into the hopeless hollows of nowhere, this person didn’t defy all rules of gravity to save you, but yes, caught you when you fell and gave you the smile which said- “You’ll never in your life, hear the end of this.”

Sigh. The feeling of having a best friend.
The feeling of having someone who’d start preaching the moment something goes wrong but will NEVER say- “I told you so.”
The feeling of a hug booked specially for you.
The feeling of never being lonely.

A best friend brings out the best in you and ALSO the worst. A best friend will push you into the most RIDICULOUS of situations only to pull you out again.
A best friend fights, rebukes, pulls your hair and punches your nose but loves you like nobody can.
A best friend is someone who knows your secrets without you uttering a word. You tend to be yourself in front of them without even REALIZING. You say the STUPIDEST of things in front of them, and they still love you. They accept you just the way you are. You can make little dinosaur noises in front of them, go all philosophical and crazy in front of them, talk about how you REALLY want to get into Harvard with a 40% marksheet in your hand- and they won’t think you’re crazy. (Well, that I can’t guarantee. :D )
They would have seen those precious goodbyes and would have wiped your lonely tears. They would have heard you cry about the same thing a zillion times but would have never gotten bored. BECAUSE THEY LOVE YOU.

Look around. We all have that best friend somewhere. Are we missing upon that someone?

Life has gems all over the ground. Keep them safe.
Queen of Blah signing off. :) 

~A Soft Breeze.~

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. 

~Mahatma Gandhi.


The moment, a little baby with a pure heart enters the world, his being starts a new journey. He gets promoted to a higher order, where now, he has more things to learn, more things to understand, more things to see. He is sent to the world to err, so that he can learn- and time makes sure he does. 
Life has its own weird ways. :) 

So, who are we, who don't even understand a FRACTION of life's contrivance, to take 'revenge' and hold 'grudges.' Every single person on this planet, has the birthright to make MISTAKES- Small, big, insignificant, disastrous: All have their own place in the big puzzle of life. All the good and all the bad come together to form life. What has happened to us is what WE have earned and who made it happen to us has something to learn in the future. In fact, we should go ahead and thank that person, because he MADE IT HAPPEN. He took our life to such a stage, where we got the opportunity to grow and learn and become better and stronger human beings. For a person who has the strength to admit that his life is what he has made of it, not what the others have, is a person to be admired. No matter, how many mistakes he has made in life, no matter, how much he has suffered, if he has the strength to forgive those who have hurt him GENUINELY, and the heart to admit his own mistakes and correct them one by one and also FORGIVE HIMSELF, is a person who has made good terms with life, peace and happiness. We, as simple foolish human beings have to understand that when we forgive, we let loose an abyss of positivity, happiness, contentment and PEACE in the dry arid areas of our soul which REFUSE to grow the flowers of love and understanding for the human race.  
Forgiveness is the first step to a new beginning in life. 
Forgive yourself for all the wrong you have done. Love yourself. Trust yourself. Make a fresh start.
Forgive others for all the wrong they have done to you. Love them. Thank them. Make a fresh start. 
Forgive those for all the wrong they have done to others. Love them. Make peace with them. Make a fresh start. 
Because, a person who forgives is strong, wise and beautiful.
A person who confesses his faults is strong, wise and beautiful. 
Also, 
A person who lives his life in an illusion of being correct all the time, will be strong, wise and beautiful. 

Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without. 

~Budha. 


Life is a soft breeze, let it blow. 

Queen of Blah signing off. :) 

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